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  • Age:
  • 39
  • Ethnicity:
  • Czech
  • My sex:
  • I am girl
  • My Zodiac sign:
  • Sagittarius
  • My body features:
  • Slender

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Maybe we were always these confused individuals creating hollow lives for ourselves. Or maybe we had a better understanding of what dating and finding a partner in life actually allows for. Well, they sort of date, but not really. Calling it "dating" is rather insulting to the once coveted -- and now seemingly archaic -- practice. Our modern day dating culture is somewhat appalling.

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What happened to the days of chivalry? Where did it go? One minute, guys were opening doors for us, pulling out our chairs, and connecting over a shared meal. We pay our way through meals and are even happy to get our own doors. Technology is great. Technology has achieved great things for us. No one wanted to admit they were online dating. It was a of failure. Fast forward to today and there are now apps out there for almost every type of dating. From single parents to casual sex, and onto lesbians.

Why waste time dating and getting to know a person, when you can chat to multiple people at once online?

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You have to jump through hoops and multiple other partners to even make it to an in-person date. By then, you generally feel so comfortable with each other you can skip that initial dating stage and jump ahead to tracksuit pants and a movie on the couch. Of course, we have. Why would a guy want to date, when he can simply message any of women and organize a booty call to his house? But none of that is necessary anymore.

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We either are up for sex or keep searching for a guy who might actually stop to get to know you first. Guys are only on the hunt for something casual, and us women?

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We end up embracing it because it has become the norm. Heading out to a nightclub or bar was always a great way to meet guys and flirt a little. Somewhere along the way, men stopped buying the drinks. We get it, the fight for feminismthey yell! This is what you wanted, they tell us! But no. Sadly it has gone much too far. You go up and chat with a woman, sipping away on your drink, without even offering to buy her one. But, who has time to go out there and find the right person? And many women fall into this boat as well.

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The difference is, women have this thing called a biological clock. If we want that family, then we are on a time frame. Once upon a time, women were falling pregnant in their early 20s.

These days, the average age of mothers has increased to between 30 and We skip the dating and head over for sex to get to know him intimately. Watch our opportunity to have kids float away, while we try and coax a guy to take us out on a date.

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Once again, it seems that our expectations have fallen short and the men have taken advantage of this one. Suddenly, shaving, popping on a nice suit, buying some chocolates, and picking up a woman from her house has become too much. In fact, shaving and getting dressed up on its own is far too much for many men these days. Sure, they want female attention but they also know they can get it from so many different places.

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There are so many apps out there for them to and find different females on, it hardly makes sense to men to put the effort in for a woman. This is why the hook-up culture has become a thing. There are still guys out there willing to make an effort and romance a love interest. We all have a personality trait that makes us special… and important to the world. Discover YOUR secret superpower with my new quiz.

Check out the quiz here. Men are jumping from women to women and no one is stopping to define these relationships anymore. Is it a fling? And this is happening for one simple reason: almost no one is dating anymore. Instead, we are all diving into casual relationships with multiple people and the lines get blurred along the way. No one stops to question them either. Once upon a time, it was the norm to fall in love, get married, and have children. Once you had your first child, people would immediately start asking when two was coming along.

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It was a given that you would go for at least a second child, if not more. You get to choose whether or not you want to have. As a result, being single is becoming the norm.

No one is in a rush to find the love of their life and settle down. Instead, they are spending more time figuring out themselves and what they might want out of life. While this is great in many respectsit means we are also missing out on opportunities. We are quite simply letting love pass us by while we sit back and work out whether we even want love at all. Some of us are so ready not to conform to what society wants, that we are simply missing what is right in front of us. While being single is great and has its perks, so does being in a relationship and finding your soulmate.

It clear to see things have changed. It seems that tracksuit pants and popcorn on the couch are the new dating norm. Technology has a lot to answer for when it comes to our ever-changing world. Guys and girls have the freedom to flick between partners at the press of the button, which has made the chase almost non-existent. Here are 6 things you can do to change your dating life and get your man out on dates with you again.

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But not to the extent that we get rid of it altogether! There are no set rules when it comes to dating. But it does require you to meet up in person and actually get to know each other.

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What happens beyond that is up to you — rules are made to be broken, so you need to find a way to date that works for both of you. You want to pick up the phone and call him. Once you do a couple of initial dinner and dining dates, think about some activities you can both do together. By seeing each other in different environments, you can learn so much more about each other and how you click.

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You might need to step up your game and give him a few lessons in romance and hope he catches on fast. It takes change, it takes commitment, and it takes time. Dating is an important part of life and we hope it never dies! The early feedback has been incredible, but our channel is still so small…. We would love to get your help by subscribing to the channel below. It just takes a quick click of the button and means so much to us.

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