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Romantic attraction is a complicated thing that scientists still don't completely understand. But, through research and experimentation, they've come up with many ideas about what draws one person to another.
Below, we have rounded up some of the most compelling scientific insights about the traits and behaviors that make men more appealing to women. The best part? None of the items on this list require you to do anything drastic like get cosmetic surgery or do a major personality overhaul. We're talking small tweaks, like acting nicer and swapping your deodorant.
Rutgers University anthropologist and best-selling author Helen E. Fisher says that women around the world al interest with a remarkably similar sequence of expressions. As she shared at Psychology Today : "First the woman smiles at her admirer and lifts her eyebrows in a swift, jerky motion as she opens her eyes wide to gaze at him. Then she drops her eyelids, tilts her head down and to the side, and looks away. This sequential flirting gesture is so distinctive that [German ethologist Irenaus] Eibl-Eibesfeldt was convinced it is innate, a human female courtship ploy that evolved eons ago to al sexual interest.
In one study, researchers at the University of California at Berkeley looked at the behavior of 60 heterosexual male and 60 heterosexual female users on an online dating site. While the majority of users were inclined to reach out to highly attractive people, they were most likely to get a response if that person was about as attractive as they were as judged by independent raters.
If they are much less attractive, you are worried that you could do better. And a stud y from Cardiff Metropolitan University found that men pictured in a luxury apartment were rated more attractive than those in a control group. Interestingly, men don't seem to be more attracted to women when they're pictured in a high-status context.
Psychologists call it the " George Clooney Effect.
As study of 3, heterosexual adults suggested that women often prefer older men. As the women became more financially independent, they said they liked older guys even more.
Evolutionary psychologists say that younger women and older men often pair up because while fertility only lasts from puberty to menopause in women, it can extend long into midlife for many men. Society also gives men greater opportunity to accumulate status and resources as they age.
In a study from researchers at the University of New South Wales, researchers had heterosexual men and heterosexual women look at images of 10 men in one of four conditions: clean-shaven, light stubble, heavy stubble, or full beard. Participants rated the men pictured on several traits, including attractiveness.
Dixson and Robert C. In a study from University of California, Los Angeles, women looked at pictures of shirtless men and indicated which ones seemed like they would make the best long- and short-term partners. showed that women were more likely to want short-term relationships with the guys who had big muscles.
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Characteristics like muscularity are "cues of genes that increase offspring viability or reproductive success," say authors David A. Frederick and Martie G. But Frederick and Haselton took away another telling finding: Less-muscular men were thought to be a better fit for long-term relationships. So if you want to catch a woman's eye and hold her attention, you may be better off not going overboard.
One of the best documented findings in psychology is the halo effect, a bias where you unconsciously take one aspect of somebody as a proxy for their overall character. It's why we think beautiful people are good at their jobs, even when they aren't necessarily. As psychologist and writer Scott Barry Kaufman notes, the halo effect works in other ways too. In a Chinese study, more than young people looked at images of men and women's faces and rated them on attractiveness.
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Each face pictured was paired with a word that described either a positive personality trait — like kindness or honesty — or a negative personality trait, like being evil or mean. A cross-cultural study — with participants from China, England, Germany, and the US — found that women are most attracted to men wearing red.
In one experiment from the study, 55 female undergr looked at a colour photo of a man in either a red or green shirt, and then rated the man's attractiveness. Sure enough, the man was rated ificantly more attractive when he was wearing a red shirt.
The were similar when researchers compared the red shirt to other colour shirts as well. Interestingly, participants generally weren't aware that the man's clothing colour was influencing their perceptions of his attractiveness. Multiple studies indicate that women are more attracted to men who can make them laugh. In one small French studya man told a joke to two friends at a bar while a woman sat at a nearby table.
Then that man was instructed to approach the woman and ask for her. In another version of the situation, one of the men who listened to the joke asked the woman for her. These scenarios were repeated about 60 times total. After the man left, an experimenter approached the woman and asked her to rate the man on attractiveness and intelligence, and to indicate how much she would want to date the man long-term.
showed that the guy was three times as likely to get the woman's when he'd told a joke. Plus he was rated more attractive and intelligent. A experiment from the Ruppin Academic Center in Israel and the University of Michigan, concluded that owning a pet als that you're nurturing and capable of making long-term commitments. It can also help you appear more relaxed, approachable, and happy.
Not into pet ownership? Simply being seen with a dog can make you seem more dateable. In a French study froma year-old man approached hundreds of women and asked for their phone s.
When he had a dog with him, he was three times more likely to score their digits. In a studyresearchers at the University of Sussex asked about 1, women whose average age was 28 to listen to simple and complex pieces of music and rate the attractiveness of the composer. The showed that women preferred the more complex music, and said they would choose the composer of the more complex music as a long-term partner.
Even just holding an instrument could help you get a date. A French study found that men who approached women and asked for their were more successful when they carried a guitar case, as opposed to a gym bag or nothing at all. Australian researchers recently studied undergr participating in a speed-dating session, and found that mindful men tended to receive higher attractiveness ratings from women. After each interaction with an opposite-sex partner, students privately indicated how "sexy" they found their partner and how much they'd like to date that person. showed that men were generally more drawn to physically attractive women.
Independent coders had rated the students' attractiveness beforehand. But women were generally more attracted to mindful men. A study led by researchers at the University of Alaska at Anchorage found that women are attracted to men who take what the researchers call "hunter-gatherer risks.
More than undergr filled out questionnaires about how attractive they would find a partner who engaged in certain risky behaviours, as opposed to a partner who engaged in low- or no-risk behaviours. Hunter-gatherer risks included mountain biking, deep-sea scuba diving, and extreme rollerblading.
showed that women said they would be more attracted to men who engaged in hunter-gatherer risks — the kinds that were similar to risks faced by ancestral humans. Simply knowing that you're wearing a new fragrance can make you act more confident, and even make you seem more attractive to other people.
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In a small study published in the International Journal of Cosmetic Scienceresearchers gave one group of male undergraduates a spray with antimicrobial ingredients and fragrance oil, and provided another group with an unscented spray that didn't contain antimicrobial ingredients. Over the next few days, the men who used the scented spray reported higher self-confidence and felt more attractive. The smell of garlic on your breath is generally regarded as an instant romance killer.
But a recent series of studiesfrom researchers at Charles University and the National Institute of Mental Health in the Czech Republic and the University of Stirling in the United Kingdom, suggests a different story when it comes to body odor.
In one study, eight men ate a slice of bread with cheese and 12 grams of fresh garlic; another eight ate bread and cheese without any garlic. For the next 12 hours, the men wore cotton p under their armpits and were instructed not to use any deodorants or fragrances. The following day, all the men returned to the lab, where 40 women sniffed the p and rated the odor on pleasantness, attractiveness, masculinity, and intensity. showed that the garlic group was rated more pleasant and attractive and less masculine and intense.
A stud y from UK researchers found that women find men more appealing when they do volunteer work. About 30 women looked at a picture of a man with a brief description of his hobbies, which sometimes included volunteer work. The same procedure was repeated with about 30 men looking at a picture of a woman. Everyone rated how attractive they found the person pictured for a short- and long-term relationship. Both genders rated the person pictured as more attractive for a long-term relationship when they were described as a volunteer — but the effect was stronger for women rating men.
In a studyresearchers at the University of Liverpool and the University of Stirling took photos of 24 male and 24 female undergr. They digitally manipulated half of the images so the subjects appeared to have facial scars — for example, a line on the person's forehead that looked like the result of an injury.